A Day at the Spa

Following are a few suggestions for the perfect wedding gift, a non-traditional bridal shower or a romantic getaway for the bride and groom to be.

* The Abhasa Waikiki Spa (808) 922-8200 located at The Royal Hawaiian Hotel offers unique treatments utilizing Hawaii's natural healing environment. Special treatments unique to the Abhasa include the Anti-Stress Color Light Therapy, Cold Laser-Anti-Aging Treatment amongst assorted body massages and scrubs. For more information visit www.royal-hawaiian.com/nh_abhasa.htm.

* Spoil yourself with the scent of roses at the Ihilani Spa (808) 679-0079 at the JW Marriot Ihilani Resort & Spa with such treatments as the Rose Body Mask and Rose D'Orient Facial available every year for limited time only (usually from Valentine's Day until May). The Rose Body Mask combines natural ingredients and pure essential oils, gentle exfoliation, Rose mask and a light rose mist applied to the entire body. To complement the rose body mask is the 80-minute aromatherapy Rose D'Orient Facial that leaves guests with a "rosy" glow as they leave the spa. Visit www.ihilani.com for details.

* At The Mandara Spa (808) 945-7721 at the Hilton Hawaiian Village Kalia Tower, guests can indulge in the Spa Tasting Package, a relaxing combination of traditional island healing practices beginning with the Mandara Footbath followed with the Massage Around the World and concludes with the Aroma Pure Facial or Traditional Mandara Facial. Tea Service and a manicure and pedicure are also included. Or relax with the Dipping Pleasure Package; which includes a Hand Paraffin Dip, a manicure and a pedicure. For details on other services, treatments and packages visit www.mandaraspa.com.

Good Times Together

Following are unique date suggestions that everyone can enjoy.

* Catch a movie on a 30-foot screen on the beach at "Sunset on the Beach", This free event, sponsored by the City and County of Honolulu takes place at Queen's Surf Beach, in Waikiki. Includes great local entertainment, food and fun. For a listing of upcoming movies visit www.co.honolulu.hi.us/events/waikiki_events/index1.htm.

* Get away from conventionality and take to the open sea with Tradewind Charters 1-800-829-4899. Offering a unique romantic experience as well as spectacular views, they cater to your every romantic whim. Celebrate with their "Champagne & Chocolates," a private 2-hour cruise off the Honolulu coast. Catch a spectacular sunrise at sea on the Mimosa Sunrise Cruise. Enjoy fresh pastries and coffee and mimosa. For more information on the variety of fun and romantic cruises, check out www.tradewindcharters.com

* Let TheRealHawaii 1-877-597-7325 take you on a tropical excursion to pick strawberry guava growing wild along side your path as you hike a top cliffs above Manoa Valley. Stop for a moment to hear the breeze as it blows through the bamboo grove and learn the cultural and medicinal uses for many native plants. Check out www.therealhawaii.com for more options.

* Treat yourselves to a relaxing afternoon of tea and light desserts at The Kahala Mandarin Oriental's (808) 739-8888, The Veranda (808) 739-8895 or at the Sheraton Moana Surfrider's (808) 922-3111, The Banyan Veranda (808) 931-8383.

* Swim with dolphins while you learn more about them from a variety of interactive dolphin programs through Sea Life Park (808) 259-2500, Dolphin Quest (808) 739-8918, Wildside Specialty Tours (808) 306-7273 and Ko`Olina Ocean Adventures (808) 396-2068

* Cruise around the Island in style on a Harley Davidson rented at Cruzin Hawaii Rentals (808) 945-9595. Hotel pick up available.

Romance Packages

These unique hotel packages are sure to leave you with memories to last a lifetime.

* "Serenade Your Sweetheart" at the Aston Hotels & Resorts Hawaii Waikiki Joy Hotel (808) 923-2300. Highlights of this package include a welcome "Guavalada" smoothie, chilled in-room champagne; king-size bed covered in rose petals as Hawaiian love songs play in the background. And that's just the beginning, also included is an in-room Jacuzzi with Hawaiian bath crystals, dinner for two their signature café, Cappuccinos and one hour of karaoke at GS Studios where you can make a cassette tape recording of your serenade to your sweetheart.

* Let the Outrigger Waikiki on the Beach and the Outrigger Reef on the Beach show you the Hawaiian style of romance. At the Outrigger Waikiki on the Beach (808) 923-0711 you'll be greeted with floral lei, champagne and a special makana, (gift). This romance package also includes two tickets to the lively and world famous cocktail show by the Society of Seven in the Outrigger Main showroom and two outrigger canoe rides off Waikiki Beach. At the Outrigger Reef on the Beach (808) 923-3111, you'll find tranquility at their on-site Serenity Spa (808) 926- 2882, as a part of their romance package be pampered with a couples massage and breakfast for two every morning at the Oceanside Shore Bird Restaurant. Visit Outrigger on-line at www.outrigger.com for details.

.* Let the Sheraton Waikiki (808) 922-4422 treat you to champagne in souvenir flute glasses, chocolate dipped strawberries and their signature stuffed "honu" (turtle) all upon arrival. Enjoy breakfast in the privacy of your room or take in the breathtaking view of Waikiki Beach as you savor a delicious breakfast at the Ocean Terrace restaurant. Included in their honeymoon package is an elegant and romantic dinner at the hotels' signature Hanohano Room and a one-hour catamaran sail across the Pacific Blue. For more information visit their website at www.sheraton-waikiki.com

* At the Pacific Beach Hotel indulge in an elegant suite with ocean views and a heart shaped Jacuzzi tub. Enjoy delicious dining in the Oceanarium (808) 922-1233 and surprise your loved one with a special surprise inside their 280,000-gallon fish tank. Visit www.pacificbeachhotel.com for details.

Wedding Packages

The following are just a few of the unique wedding packages that can be found on O`ahu.

* Couples who exchange vows at the historic Royal Hawaiian Hotel (808) 923-7311, renowned as the Pink Palace of the Pacific have the option of choosing their program called "Marriage Live," where family and friends from around the world can privately view the ceremony in real time, full motion video and audio via the internet. For more information check out www.royal-hawaiian.com

* The Waikiki Beach Marriott Resort (808) 922-6611offers couples the opportunity to unveil the wedding of their dreams at a great value. Choose from wedding ceremony packages with a contemporary, traditional or Hawaiian theme. Special additions include one complimentary room night in an elegant suite, personalized etched champagne glasses for the bride and groom and a breakfast certificate for two. Denise Meyer, Wedding Sales Manager, is available on-site to assist couples in planning their ceremonies, receptions, and renewal of vows. For more information contact (808) 921-5183 or visit www.marriottwaikiki.com.

* The JW Marriott Ihilani Resort (808) 679-0079 offers 2003 special wedding packages. The Ihilani -"Heavenly Splendor" package includes fresh floral arrangements, a harpist to play the traditional "Hawaiian Wedding Song", and professional photography and video services. The La O Mea Makanee - "Day of Treasure" package includes a complimentary bottle of champagne, a keepsake engraved silver wedding cake knife and a spa massage for the bride and groom. Both packages include the JW Marriott Ihilani commemorative wedding certificate. Visit www.ihilani.com for more information and other package options.

* Tie the knot at Kahana Kai Estate 1-800- 462-4805; a private beachfront home on the Windward coast is surrounded by lush tropical gardens, the Koolau Mountains and overlooking the beaches of Kahana Bay. Visit their site on-line at www.kahanakai.com